For example: If a giant bear is standing in the hallway of your home, you will need to feel fear in order to act and remove yourself from the situation. In this case fear is useful, and in fact necessary, to keep you safe.
But how often in life do we tell stories in our minds about things that aren’t actually happening? How often are we pre-empting that something bad is going to happen around us, and thereby create fear for ourselves that isn’t actually required? We pull ourselves out of the present moment and put ourselves into fear, paranoia and over analysis, all of which restrict our natural state of joy.
When we think fearful thoughts we cause our bodies to go into stress. Our heart rate increases, we release adrenaline into our bloodstream and we even change the flow of our blood. Imagine doing this on a regular basis, day after day for your whole life! Fear causes us to exhaust ourselves.
I love this idea. I think the happiest creatures on earth must be goldfish. They forget everything after 3 seconds. And they seem pretty chilled out most of the time. Obviously we can’t erase our past, or the pain that goes with it; but if we can be mindful of the thoughts that arise when we feel scared, we have the opportunity to extinguish unjustified fears before they take control.
Ask yourself- is this fear justified? Am I in any real danger?
If you are, then act, but if you are not, become aware. Gently focus your attention upon the thoughts that are running through your mind.
When we understand that we have control over our thoughts, including the fearful ones, we can decide to dismiss any that do not serve us. We can choose instead to ground ourselves straight into the present moment, and look to understand the truth of what is happening around us.
It is in the present moment that we can experience true freedom and a state of natural, uninterrupted bliss, because we are without fear, worry or anxiety. Our bodies can truly relax, our breath can be deep, and we are able to live life as it is meant to be lived- in love.
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Love your work here Chiara
Always a worthy read