Your life experience right now is a direct result of the things you have thought about and acted upon in your past- both the good and the bad.

Knowing and understanding this concept is the first step in learning to use the law of attraction to create you the life you want.

We spend a lot of time in our heads, we think about conversations we’ve had, ex partners, our crappy jobs, and we also spend hours dreaming of the future when all of our problems will somehow disappear. They wont.

The truth is that your life will only get better when you learn to harness your personal power, which lies in the present moment, and use it to create change in your life. And it is in the present moment that true magnetism happens.

When you begin to use the law of attraction in this way, you will no longer be the victim of your life’s circumstances, or a puppet for anyone else’s use. You will find that you and you alone are in charge of your destiny; through the quality of the thoughts you choose to accept or create in your mind.

Your confidence will grow stronger and stronger, and you will naturally start to attract more of the things you want, and less of the things you don’t.

Accept that you have made mistakes

We have all made mistakes in our lives. But you can choose to see those mistakes as lessons. If you look back on all of the choices in your life that you regret, I know you will find a lesson. Sometimes they are buried deep, but they are always there.

Forgive 

Your mistakes may have hurt people. Maybe other people’s mistakes have hurt you. Either way, you need to let them go if you want to change your life. Carrying around shame, blame or guilt for things that have happened in the past only blocks your heart from being able to manifest for you the live you want and deserve. So give yourself permission to let it go.

Watch your thoughts

Negative thoughts will always arise, but you have the power to choose how much air-time you give them. It is totally within your control whether your negative thoughts about yourself or you life get primetime or end up on the cutting room floor.

When you notice a negative though coming up for you, change what you are doing. Stand up, sit down, shake your head, take a deep breath, just do something. You need to practice removing the unconscious negativity program that is on repeat in the back of your mind, and by moving your body or making a sound, you disrupt that thought process.

Bring in the positive

Once you become aware of a negative thought, replace it. Use the new awareness you have gained to speak nicely to yourself, even give yourself an internal high five! Focus on bringing a positive feeling of love or joy into your mind and then visualize your life from this place.

Practice these steps daily, hourly, whenever you can! Pretty soon you’ll notice how your self-confidence, and your life, has changed for the better.