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Transcript: You Get What You Focus On – Motivational Video Ft. Tom Bilyeu

The world is an ugly and desolate place, at least if that’s what you focus on.

Here’s the reality. You’re gonna get what you focus on. And if you choose to see what’s wrong, if you choose to see what’s broken, if you choose to see all of the things that are bad, then they’re going to be exaggerated. You’re gonna see them everywhere.

If you choose to see the ugly in this world, you will literally be buried in it. But if you choose to see beautiful, if you choose to see potential, if you choose to see the things that are right, then all of the sudden you’re gonna be surrounded by that.

And this is one of those things that no matter how much I say it people don’t really understand the power of focus. If you put your time and energy into what you decide to see, the world will change.

There’s literally a region of your brain that determines whether what you’re looking at is good or bad, positive or negative, but you can take control of that. Nothing has to happen by accident. You can literally shape the world before your eyes. Think about this. The brain is encased in total darkness. Light never touches your brain.

The movements of the air that we think of a sound never actually reach your brain. Everything hits your eye, your ear, and they’re translated into electrical and chemical signals. And from that you construct a reality. But the truth is you’re living in the matrix right now. Even if this is not a computer simulation and we’re really here, your brain is still creating a reality, it’s determining what you see.

Now the question is, how much of that are you going to let happen by accident and how much are you going to take control?

And once you decide to take control and start constructing optimism, positivity, all the sudden, you’re going to have more energy to attack things because you believe that they’re going to happen for you, and belief is ultimately the most powerful thing that you can have. If you believe that your time and attention is going to be rewarded, if your efforts are going to result in improvement, then all the sudden you don’t have to worry about whether you’re good. You only have to worry about how much time and energy you’re willing to put into something.

And once that’s the equation, once you’re the eternal learner, once your identity and your self-esteem is entirely wrapped up in getting good, in becoming great, then you’ll make progress because you’re not tripping over self-loathing. You’re not tripping over hating who you are or what your capable of. You’re not worried about what you were or weren’t born with. Once you get out of that trap, and you start thinking about your potential, and you start thinking about what you can become, that’s when the world opens up to you. But it all comes down to what you focus on.

So you’ve got to be very careful about what you allow yourself to see. And yes, it is a choice. And the question you have to ask right now is what choice are you making? What things are you deciding to see?

What is your world created of? Once you take control of that process, then potential becomes limitless. But first, you have to know that it all begins with focus.

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Tom Bilyeu Motivational Speech: Learn From Your Haters – WATCH ON YOUTUBE:

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Transcript: LEARN FROM YOUR HATERS – Tom Bilyeu

Being insulted is amazing. It’s one of the best things that could happen to you. Why? Because when people want to hurt you, they’re going to come after you with something real.

Nobody throws an insult at you that they think is patently ridiculous. The things that they insult you for are the things that they know are going to get under your skin, and if you can take that in, if you can let that pain wake you up to something you may not have wanted to look at, if you can let that attack become something that empowers you, because you’re willing to listen, you’re able to separate the message from the messenger.

You’re able to see that even though what they’re trying to do is hurt you, that in there, there is a nugget of truth, and the way that I think about that, is when people throw something at me, they’re throwing a nugget of gold, and yes, it sucks every time you get hit in the face with a nugget of gold. But if you don’t throw your defences up, if you take that shot, suddenly at your feet is something very valuable, something that you can use, and all you have to do is be willing to pick it up, be willing to hold it in your hand and look at it, and see it for what it is, which is the truth.

And in the truth, then you can see how you really are, and once you see how you really are, then you can make that change, but it all begins with the pain. It all begins with the suffering. It all begins with an insult. It all begins with something aimed to take you down, but when you have the mentality of a learner, when your identity is around self-improvement, when the thing that makes up who you are is your single-minded willingness to stare naked at your inadequacies, suddenly you can change.

Suddenly, it doesn’t hurt so much to have somebody say something. As long as it’s true, you’re willing to use it. As long as it’s true, you’re willing to take it on board, and see how you can improve and get better but first, you must stop being willfully blind to your inadequacies. You must stop being willfully blind to the mistakes that you make.

You must stop being willfully blind to the areas that you need to improve if you want to achieve the things that you say you want to achieve, but that’s where people get stuck. They get stuck in self-esteem. They get stuck building their self-esteem around something that is weak, something that is fragile, something that can be attacked.

And that’s why you have to build your self-esteem around something truly anti-fragile, something that the more it is attacked, the stronger it becomes, and the only thing that I’ve ever seen that’s like that is to identify as the learner. Once you identify, once your very sense of self is that of someone who improves, someone who’s willing to look at the truth, someone who’s willing to hear the hard, and difficult, and painful truths about who you really are, because you know that the thing that makes you great is your willingness to look at that and to improve.

Once you have that mentality, once you’re willing to push yourself and improve and become something extraordinary, that is the thing that’s going to give you that pride and that sense of self-esteem, because you were willing to stare at the things that you find ugly about yourself, because you know you can make them beautiful. And that’s the difference between the person who throws an insult at you. They have not yet figured that out, and they need to tear you down to try to make themselves bigger.

But you don’t need to do that, because you have an aim. You know what you’re trying to become, and the relentless pursuit of that mandates that you accept who you really are right now as a means to figure out the new skillset that you need to acquire to live the life that you wanna live, but focus only on that. Don’t worry about people trying to tear you down.

Don’t worry about anything other than what is true, what is needed, for you to cross the chasm of skillset to get from where you are to where you want to be, because that is the most important question life is ever going to ask. Who do you wanna become, and what’s the price you’re willing to pay to get there? So ask yourself right now: what price are you willing to pay for greatness?

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Transcript: WHAT IS THE MOST YOU CAN BEAR? – Tom Bilyeu

If you want to do something extraordinary with your life, stop asking yourself what the least you need to do is. And start asking yourself what’s the most you can bear?

Humans are capable of truly unbelievable things. But the reality is the way that we get better, is by going through a simple process of adaptation. But what triggers the adaptation is stressors. It’s doing things that are difficult. It’s pushing yourself into a state of adapt or die.

The body wants to conserve energy, so unless you put yourself in the state where the body absolutely feels like to survive, it must adapt, you’re never going to change. And that’s why only the most elite people, end up achieving at the highest level, because they take the time to shape themselves.

They put the energy into getting better. They’re willing to suffer. They’re willing to push through and persevere, but until you’re willing to do that, until you’re willing to stop asking yourself what you can get away with and start asking yourself, how far can I go? Just how much am I capable of?

And when your fascination becomes that, when you start wondering just how much am I capable of? And every level that you achieve excites you to push harder, and go farther, and do more, and bear more weight. Then, all of the sudden you really can begin to surpass other people, but it takes that, it takes a total shift of your mindset.

You’ve got to be obsessed with just how far you can go. You have to be obsessed with finding your breaking point, and then pushing beyond that.

That is how you really begin to take advantage of the adaptation process. That’s how you begin to improve. That’s how you begin to build your body and build your mind, is to push beyond your comfort zone. That is how you get great.

At the end of the day, nobody sat their way to greatness. Nobody sat back and relaxed and became extraordinary. The only people who really achieve, the only way that humans are able to do the extraordinary things that we’re able to do is by going to that breaking point and then beyond.

But you have to find something in there you want that badly. There’s no way to just do it. You’ve got to find something in you that you believe in so much, that you’re willing to push yourself that hard.

So you’ve got to construct a story about, not only who you are, but what you can become. And when that narrative is so compelling, that it pushes you forward, then you will have the kind of change that you want in your life. But first, you have to believe that you can do it. You’ve got to put yourself out there. You’ve got to grind and work. But to do that, to work that hard, to make those kinds of changes, you’ve got to be willing to test yourself.

You’ve got to be willing to look inside yourself and find out who you really are. You’ve got to be willing to stare nakedly at your inadequacies and be willing to push through them.

You can’t pretend. You’ve gotta really look at your results and see if you’re making the progress that you want to make. And that’s where a lot of people fail. They lie to themselves, they want to get away with something. They want to see if anybody’s looking,

but the reality is the only thing that matters in this life, what do you think about yourself, when you’re by yourself?

There’s no campaigning, there’s no convincing anybody. There’s only the credibility that you’ve either earned with yourself or not, and the hard truth is that self-worth comes from doing something worthy. It comes from the hard things, it comes from the suffering. It comes from persevering.

When things get difficult to know what you want and to stay that course even when everything else is trying to knock you off. So build that thing, build that thing in your life. Build that belief, know that you can do it, and be willing to go through hell to get to the other side. To get to the person that you were always meant to be. It won’t be easy, but it sure as hell is possible.

Transcript: YOU CAN CHANGE – Tom Bilyeu

We all need a word of encouragement from time to time, so I want this to be that word. So, let me tell you what I know.

You can change, no matter what you think of yourself. Humans are designed to change. That’s what we do. But you have to put yourself underneath tremendous stress in order to trigger that adaptation response.

But if you know what direction you want to move in, if you know what you want to become, you can change into that. And so, holding onto the fears and the doubts and the worries, they’re not serving you. And looping around that mentally and wondering if you’re going to make it and practicing mentally how you’re gonna deal with the failure, how you would justify it to people, all of that is stopping you from doing the one thing that actually will work.

Trying, practicing, training, falling down. Those are the very things you need to do, the very simple act of taking action. That’s the thing that you have to focus on. If you do that, then you’ll be able to trigger your ability to change.

So, I don’t need you to believe that you’re capable of something extraordinary now, and I know in your heart you have that dream, you have that small flicker of a belief that you can do it. That if you just try, that you could figure it out, and that’s what I want you to focus on.

You could figure it out. Not that you already know how to do it. I fully accept that you don’t. I fully accept that most of the things that I want to do with my life and will go onto do, I’m not yet capable of but I so believe in the human ability to change. Not even something that’s unique to myself, just the human ability to change. That if I simply walk that path of doing, of trying, of failing, and learning, that on a long enough timeline, I will win. So, whatever it is that you’re thinking about doing right now, I want to be that voice in your head that says you can do it. Maybe not today but you can do it.

You can become capable of that thing that you want, that you so dream about that would give you that sense of self pride that you want, that you hunger for. And I will say this, be proud even if you never reach it, as long as you try.

So go out right now, stop this, stop listening to this, stop whatever you’re doing, and get out there and try. Do it and remember that it is a process of adaptation and to go through that process you must get under stress. It’s the only way that you’ll grow but you can do it. You can grow, you can become whatever you want.

Transcript: BUILD YOUR WORTH – Tom Bilyeu

No one will ever hate you with the intensity that you can hate yourself, and that’s why you absolutely must take the time to build your self-worth.

And I really wish that building your self-worth was simply as easy as repeating to yourself that you love yourself, but it’s not. The reality is if you want to love yourself you have to do something that is worthy of that love.

You have to do something that you believe in. You have to find a way to build credibility with yourself, to tell yourself you’re going to do something and know that you’re actually going to see it through.

The reality is we’re all watching ourselves all the time. We know how we behave. And so you really have to think about that. I want it to be enough. I want it to be enough that you exist and that you’re going to be okay simply because you are. But the reality is we don’t look at life like that and we do judge ourselves and we do think about whether or not we’re following through on the things that we said we were going to do.

And it’s okay to start small. It’s okay not to have a grand dream. It’s okay not to be able to do that yet. It is very okay not to be extraordinary. You don’t need that to love yourself. But what you do need is purpose.

What you do need is to take that time to define what is it that you’re trying to do with your life. Why do you matter? What is it that you’re going to be able to bring to yourself and to the world and it doesn’t have to be big? It just has to be real. It has to be something that’s true to you. It has to be something that you’re willing to commit to.

And once you’re willing to commit to it, to put in the energy every day to get up and pursue that thing, and again this is not me, I’m not judging you, I can really tell you, I love you and it’s enough that you just exist. But I know that in your head, in all of our heads, is a voice that says that just isn’t true.

And so to connect with ourselves and to find that meaning and to develop it, to create meaning in our lives, we have to set an intention and we have to pursue that intention.

Start small, know what you want, get out of bed, get after it, set rules for yourself, follow those rules.

Once you start doing those simple things, and again they don’t have to be big, but once you start setting a rule, having an intention, following your rules, building towards that intention, suddenly you’re going to earn that credibility with yourself.

And then all of the sudden no matter what anybody says to you, and they are going to say negative things, haters are going to come after you, that is just a reality of life, but you will be impervious to that if you have built within you belief, belief that you are worthy because you take small steps every day to do something that means something to you.

It doesn’t matter what other people think but it matters a lot what you think about yourself, so every day earn that worth.

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You Must Believe It Before You Can See It – Tom Bilyeu Motivational Speech – WATCH ON YOUTUBE:

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Transcript: You Must Believe It Before You Can See It – Tom Bilyeu

I want you to believe something to the core of your being. Humans lead with belief.

Once you understand that the belief has to come first, then you’ll know what it is that you have to work on because most people think they need to do something extraordinary in order to believe in themselves. But I’m telling you right now, if you don’t believe in yourself first, you will never accomplish something great.

For all of human history, the four-minute mile stood as an impossible to break barrier, and people believed in it. They actually believed it was humanly impossible to do it. And so it was never broken, no matter how many times people tried. Pundits, everybody said your heart will explode, there’s no way that the human body can do that.

But one guy, Roger Bannister, believed that it was possible. And even though he had no reason to believe that, he was able to train, and train, and train, until he finally broke the four-minute mile. The only person to do it because he was the only person that believed that it could be done.

Now, here’s the crazy part about this story. Something that has stood for all of human history, six weeks after he broke the record, another person broke it, and then another, and another, and another, until dozens, and then hundreds, and then thousands of people had broken.

Something that had stood for all of human history as a barrier that simply could not be broken. And the only thing that changed? They believed it could be done.

And that’s it. Once you understand that, once you know that first you have to cultivate the belief, then you’re going to put your energy into the area that makes sense. Actually learning to believe in yourself.

And I don’t need you to believe that you’re extraordinary, I don’t even need you to believe that you’re capable of the four-minute mile, the reality was Roger Bannister wasn’t capable of the four-minute mile, and that’s why he had to train. But he had to believe that his energies would be rewarded before it made any sense to go out and do it.

And then it’s literally shocking how much your mind will hold you back if you think you can’t do something. Guess what? You’re right. You can’t do it. But if you allow yourself to believe that you can work your way to it, if you allow yourself to believe that simply by being human, you’re the ultimate adaptation machine, and you can make a demand of yourself to grow and get better.

Then, all of a sudden, you realize that your energies are going to be rewarded and you will put the energy in. And it’s the people who dared to believe, it’s the people who allow themselves to believe that, it’s the people who cultivate that belief fiendishly. More than they think about anything else, they think about how capable they are.

They imagine themselves doing it, they visualize, they think about it. They obsess over it. And when they do that, they’re putting in the energy to actually get better, they’re taking the steps, they’re doing the things they need to do to get great.

And that’s where greatness is born. It is born out of that belief, that putting in the time and energy, doing the hard things, persevering and pushing through, that that all is going to be rewarded with success. But first, you have to believe. First, you have to believe. So put your time and energy there. If you don’t think you’re capable of something, I’m telling you right now, the only thing you have to work on is belief. Because once you have that, nothing can stop you.

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Small Minds Believe In Luck – Strong Minds Believe in Cause and Effect – Tom Bilyeu Motivational Speech – WATCH ON YOUTUBE:

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Transcript: Small Minds Believe In Luck – Strong Minds Believe in Cause and Effect – Tom Bilyeu

As Ralph Waldo Emerson said, “Shallow people believe in luck and circumstance. Strong people believe in cause and effect.”

That’s something that we all have to take ownership of. We all have to understand that our life is the summation of the choices that we make. Everything in our life is a choice, even whether or not to believe that we can grow and get better, that’s a choice.

Einstein said the most important decision any human being will ever make is whether or not you live in a friendly or a hostile universe. He called that a decision.

You decide. There’s no empirical evidence in your life whether things are good or bad. You simply decide how you’re going to see something. You can see a catastrophic loss in your life is empowering because there’s something for you to learn. Or you can simply see the loss. You get to decide what you see in that and once you realize that life really is about cause and effect, that the things that you decide to see, the things you decide to focus on are going to determine the very quality of your life because if you decide to see in everything the failure, the loss, the pain, the suffering, then you’re gonna see it everywhere.

But if, on the other hand, in everything, in every failure, you choose to see the opportunity, you choose to see the lesson, all of a sudden, you’re very frame of reference becomes one of optimism and from an optimistic lens, suddenly everything seems possible.

Sure, it may require a lot of work. Sure, it may force you to grow and get better but you believe because you have that lens of optimism, you believe that it’s possible.

So one of the most important things anyone needs to do if you want to be successful, if you want to find that fulfillment in your life, the very thing you need to do is believe in cause and effect. Because then, all of a sudden, you scrutinize every choice that you’re making. You believe that things are not simply a reflection of the circumstances under which you were born, who your parents were, where you grew up, what you look like.

Suddenly you realize that really, the very core foundation is what you choose to see, what do you choose to see in your parents. What do you choose to learn from where you grew up? What do you choose to learn from how you look? How are you going to navigate the world knowing that those are the way that they are but you can change them or you can choose to reframe them and see them in a new light and once you realize that you can reframe things and have a different physiological response, that’s the crazy thing.

Studies show that as you change your perception of something, it actually changes your neurochemistry. It begins to change the hard wiring in your brain. The very fact that you think of something different that changes your physical makeup, the choices, the decisions, the cause and effects in life are so real that they effect your physiology.

But if you’re fighting against it, if you’re pushing back, if you’re trying to see how you’re a victim instead of trying to see how you’re still in control of if nothing else, your response, if that’s what you choose to see, you’re always gonna be held back because you’re looking at the world through the lens of pessimism.

You’re looking at the world through the lens of how things are impossible, how they’re not going to work, how things are broken, the frustrations, and that’s where you’re going to live.

Once you understand that you live within your choices, then you realize how important it is to make better choices, choices that lead you towards your goal. That, at the end of the day, is how you should judge everything.

I have a goal, I know where I’m trying to get because this belief, this decision doesn’t lead me towards that or away from it and if it leads you towards it, you do it and if it moves you away from it, you don’t do it and it’s that simple.

That is cause and effect, moving towards the things that move you towards your goals, are going to get you to your goals. Cause and effect, moving away from the things that move you towards your goals is going to move you away from what you want. Cause and effect.

Once you make the cornerstone of your life, then everything becomes possible because suddenly, it’s all about control and you are the only one in control.

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It’s Only A Matter of Time Until I Win – The Mentality of Winning – Tom Bilyeu Motivational Speech – WATCH ON YOUTUBE:

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Transcript: It’s Only A Matter of Time Until I Win – The Mentality of Winning – Tom Bilyeu

As Rebecca Rusch says,

“Winning ugly is still winning.”

Learning is a clumsy, awkward process, and if you’re trying to look cool, as you try to build your skill set, you’re never going to make it. All of that posturing is just going to hold you back.

The people that really get somewhere, the people that are able to build extraordinary things, they’re the ones that aren’t afraid to fail.

They’re the ones that aren’t afraid to fail publicly. They’re never worried about what other people think. In fact, maybe they are worried about what other people think. In fact, I’m gonna guarantee it. I worry about what other people think, I know you worry about what other people think, but here is the truth.

The people that go on to win, the people that go on to change and become capable of the extraordinary, they’re the ones that didn’t worry whether other people thought, in the short term, that they looked stupid.

You’re going to look stupid. You’re going to embarrass yourself. Accept that as a reality. But if you can fight through that, if you can let, even though you feel it, if you can refuse to let it control your actions, then you’ll still go down that path of gaining mastery and in the gaining of mastery, you will have the last laugh.

What I always remind myself is to never judge myself through the lens of a moment. So if I’m fallen on my face, I’m covered in blood and mud and the whole crowd is laughing at me, what I know is on a long enough timeline, I will win.

On a long end of timeline, the last laugh will be mine because what I’m focused on is change. What I’m focused on is adaptation, what I’m focused on is growth.

I’m focused on acquiring new skills, on actually getting better at something and the most information-rich data stream that you can possibly encounter is failure.

It is that embarrassment, it’s that sting, it’s that pain of being something that is less than what you know you could be. But when you know that that’s the process, it’s so predictable, you know you’re going to go through it, you know you’re going to try something, you’re gonna be clumsy, you’re gonna be awkward, you’re going to fall, you’re going to embarrass yourself, it’s going to be difficult, you’re gonna have to learn and try it again and each time it’s going to be this stumbling, fumbling, mumbling process until you’re able to aquire the skills and literally make the changes in your brain to your physiology that you need to make in order to be able to do that thing.

But if you’re not worried about how you look and you just know the predictability of this path is too obvious to get tripped up in the beginning, knowing that the beginning is going to suck.

Knowing that the beginning is going to make you feel badly about yourself and let the clarity, the predictability of that, see you through to the part of the phase where you feel powerful because you can do something that you weren’t capable of before.

Let that sink in, as a human we can literally teach ourselves to do something that we were not capable of before. Recognizing the skills have utility and that they are worth going through that pain, that awkwardness, the judgment, the feeling stupid and bad about yourself.

It’s worth going through that to get so good, they can’t ignore you. So get that good.

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The Painful Truth About Success – Tom Bilyeu Motivational Speech – WATCH ON YOUTUBE:

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Transcript: The Painful Truth About Success – Tom Bilyeu

Here’s the painful truth, most dreams never come true. And it isn’t because people aren’t working hard, it’s not because they’re not worthy, or they’re not good, it’s the simple reality that the things that you’re dreaming about, are hard as hell to accomplish.

So if you want to accomplish them, let me tell you one thing right now. You cannot ever be passive, and most people, that’s the posture that they’re in all the time.

People are gonna tell you terrible advice, like, be patient, but the reality is, you can’t be patient, not if you want to achieve at the highest level, and if patience is your thing, if you want to chill, if you want to relax, that is absolutely fine. There is no moral obligation to aim high, there’s no moral obligation to want to be one of the greatest in the world, but let me tell you right now, if you want to be one of the greatest of all time, the reality is, you’re fighting an uphill battle.

The reality is you’re going to have to go so hard to make that a reality, that other people simply cannot imagine, working that hard for anything in their life. That’s the simple truth.

And once you realize that, once you realize that the people that achieve at the highest level, they have one thing in common, they will bury ANYONE with work. They put so much energy into what they’re trying to accomplish, that other people simply fall by the wayside.

People simply can’t imagine trying to keep up with that, and so what they say, is that person’s extraordinary, what they say, is that person is naturally talented, what they tell themselves is that person has something that they don’t have, because what they don’t want to do, is face the hard truth, that the dreams that they have aren’t coming true simply because they’re not making the right decisions. They’re not pushing themselves to learn.

Once you embrace that you’re hopelessly average, that’s where we all start, that’s the beauty of it. The greatest piece of rules that I can give you, is that you are hopelessly average, that was where you started, but it doesn’t have to be where you stay. You can become anything you want to be, but you’ve got to put in that inhuman amount of work to improve.

But if you focus on that, if you focus on improving, then, then, your dreams really can become a reality, but it has to be this aggressive posture, it has to be waking up every day, and asking yourself one simple question. How do I get better today than I was yesterday?

If you’re myopically focused on that, if that is the driving thing in your life, that you don’t worry about whether or not you’re good, or great, or talented, and you just worry about, am I getting better today than I was yesterday?

Am I putting in that kind of energy? Am I working hard enough to get better? Am I working hard enough to outperform other people? Am I willing to hold myself to this incredibly high standard?

If you’re willing to do that and be real with yourself, about whether or not you’re making progress, then, then, your dreams really can come true, and that’s what I want for people, I want people to know that. I want people to believe it, to the core of their being.

You can do anything you set your mind to. And if you need encouragement, let this be that encouragement. You can do it. I don’t care how average you are in the beginning.

Who do you want to become? And what price are you willing to pay to get there?

And when the answer to that question is, I want to be the best, and I’m willing to pay an extraordinary price to get there, then, and only then, you will get there.

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Transcript: A Life Worth Remembering – Tom Bilyeu

As Bruce Lee said: The key to immortality is first living a life worth remembering.

I know a lot of people struggle with self-worth and I wish there was an easy answer to tell you it is enough to simply be alive, that being a person makes you valuable and will give you the self-worth that you want. But what you know is that’s bullshit. At the end of the day you have to earn that self-worth.

You have to decide what is a life that’s worth remembering. What is a life that’s going to give you that sense of self? What are you going to have to do to earn that? Because you have to earn that.

There’s no way to stumble and fumble through life hoping that it will somehow add up to something that makes you feel good inside.

And at the end of the day that is the only thing that matters: How do you feel about yourself when you’re by yourself? When there’s no distractions, when there’s no noise, when there’s nothing but the sound of your own voice in your head, what are you saying?

Do you believe in yourself? Do you know you can do it? Have you put in the work? Because the reality is, to become someone that you respect… it doesn’t matter what the rest of the world thinks.

You could very much have the love and adoration of every person on this planet and still hate yourself. That’s the conundrum. The only thing that matters is what you think about you. And the only way to get that, the only way to get to a life that is worth living, that you will judge as worthy is to put in the work. It’s to do the hard things. It’s to look at what you really want, to be honest with yourself. What do you want?

If you knew you couldn’t fail, what would you do? And are you actually pursuing that?

Or are you afraid of what others think? Are you afraid that you might fail? Are you worried that you’re going to embarrass yourself? Are you worried that you will achieve glorious heights only to fall? Are those the things that govern your decisions? Are those the things that keep you small? Are those the things that dictate the life you live?

Because if they are, you’re that person that no matter how much other people love you you’re never going to love yourself because in your heart you know you could be more and there’s something in us, all of us human beings that pushes us to be the most we can be.

I’ve heard it said that hell is to meet the person you could have been at death and realize you’re not even a shadow of that person and that heaven is to meet the person you could have been and to see yourself staring back at you.

And if that’s true, if that is the meaning of all this then all the money and fame and recognition and adulation in the world doesn’t mean anything. That the thing that matters is you have potential and that you do something with that potential. You actually actuate it.

That is the obsession of my life. How much of the latent potential in me can I actually manifest into something tangible?

Remember, skills have utility. The only reason for self-improvement is to be able to do something with it, to create something with it whether that’s a song or a building or a child, it’s to create something that matters to you and in doing that, doing that and becoming the best version of yourself then you’re truly living a life worth remembering.

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