Most people have experienced this issue when it comes time for a Birthday, or Christmas: “What do I buy for them… they have everything”
Entrepreneurs in particular can be hard to please, and therefor hard to buy for… but they don’t need to be. When buying gifts for ANYONE all you really need to do is think about what that person loves, and then what type of gift fits within that love. Most entrepreneurs love growing, developing and learning, so, here are 7 gift ideas for the hard to buy for entrepreneur:

1. A Life Changing Book

Not a romance novel or Harry Potters latest, but something in the self-development aisle. Below is a list of recommended, and life-changing books EVERY entrepreneur should read if they are serious in gaining success. They are also great gifts that can be purchased online and delivered cheap.

2. Motivational Posters

What entrepreneur doesn’t love a great Motivational Quote? Keep them inspired with these motivational posters and canvas prints:

3. A Donation To Charity, On Their Behalf

Most entrepreneurs are givers. Their mission is to serve others and change lives. What better way to give a gift, than to give to two people at the same time, to help someone less fortunate in the process. These days you will find most charities provide the option of gifting, search for the one that means the most to you or your gift-recipient, and see if you can lighten up two lives with one gift.

4. Self-Development Programs

Every highly successful person is so, because they are lifetime learners. If the person you are buying for is into personal growth, there’s not many better gifts you can give than a self-development program that would change their life forever. Our go to program is Get The Edge by Tony Robbins, you can get the downloadable (UPDATED) version here. We also highly recommend anything from MindValley, especially The Spiritual Laws Of Money by T.Harv Eker.

5. Motivational CD’s and Motivational Speeches (Album Download)

I’ve never met a great entrepreneur that wasn’t self-motivated, but I’ve also never met an entrepreneur that didn’t want more, didn’t want GROWTH.

Motivational Speeches can be perfect for the hard to buy for entrepreneur to give them that little extra. You can purchase CD’s of motivational speeches, or you can also “Gift” album downloads on all popular music platforms, like iTunes, Google and Amazon. Motivation can come in many forms:
– Self-Development Speeches – On CD, Download iTunes, Download or Gift GooglePlay, Download or Gift On Amazon
– Gym Motivation (Speeches & Music) – On CD, Download or Gift on iTunes, Download or Gift GooglePlay, Download or Gift on Amazon

6. Motivational Apparel

Entrepreneurs love to declare who they are and where they are going! Try these for size:

7. A Seminar Ticket

Just like Self-Development programs, the right seminar can be life-changing. Depending on your location and how much you’re willing to spend, you could likely find a great event in your area. Test Mr. Google now.

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Success is not an accident. Failure is not a mistake. Anyone who has reached any great heights, did so because they done things differently to the majority. The majority did not reach any great heights because they done things the same as everyone else. As a society we are conditioned to believe in what we see and experience around us the most. We are conditioned to believe in the opinions and limitations of those closest to us. It is time to break the mold. It is time to avoid the biggest dream killers and begin learning how to make our DREAMS our REALITY.

Here are the 7 biggest dream killers to avoid at all costs.

1. FEAR OF FAILURE

This is perhaps the biggest dream killer of all.
Ironically, those who don’t take action because of fear of failure, FAIL by default, because they are living a life they do not want to live, a life less than their potential.
Failure is NOTHING compared with the feeling of REGRET.
Jump in the deep end, worst case scenario, you learn a big lesson and grow from the experience. Keep going until you achieve your goal.

2. FEAR OF SUCCESS

Yes, that is correct. Fear of SUCCESS.
Most people don’t reach the heights they KNOW they are capable of, because of fear they will be left out if they achieve it. If no-one around you has achieved at a high level, there may be a fear of not fitting in with the crowd.
Success can be a lonely road, courage is often needed to endure the judgements and feeling of not fitting in.

3. LACK OF WORK ETHIC

If you aren’t prepared to WORK for your dream, you will never live it.
NOTHING worthwhile in this world will come without BIG EFFORT.
Are you willing to put in the work required to get to your dream?

4. EXCUSES

You can have RESULTS or EXCUSES but you can not have both.
Successful people take ownership of their success AND their FAILURES.
If it doesn’t work out, ask yourself how you can do it better next time. If it doesn’t work out, don’t give up – WORK HARDER, try a different approach, do whatever it takes to get to your destination.

5. TOXIC INFLUENCES

Family, friends… they all mean well, but often they can impose their perceived limitations on you. Just because THEY couldn’t do it, doesn’t mean you can’t. Just because no one in the family has been successful before, doesn’t mean you can’t be the first. Respect everyone’s opinion, but believe in only ONE – your own.

6. LACK OF DISCIPLINE

DISCIPLINE and CONSISTENCY are traits of WINNERS and all successful people. Every-now-and-then is not good enough. You must be committed to work on your goals and dreams EVERY SINGLE DAY and make it more important than all those insignificant things that hold you back from success.

7. UNWILLING TO LEARN & GROW

Successful people all have one thing in common: They are lifetime learners. As Warren Buffet once said:

“The more you LEARN, the more you EARN”

Never stop educating yourself, on a range of topics, developing your skills and growing into the person you know you can become.

What do you believe is the biggest dream killer? Comment below…

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Date with Destiny is attended by a variety of people, from CEO’s and multi-millionaires, to students and those with suicidal thoughts. Everyone looking for a major breakthrough in their life.
You can make your mind up, based on these reviews, if Date with Destiny is worth it for YOU.

It is my opinion any event could be highly valuable, to anyone, depending on how you CHOOSE to view that event (something you will learn at Date With Destiny). If you have not invested in any of Tony’s books or audio programs before, I do suggest you start with those, as the event is really just a live, extended version of these programs. I highly recommend: Unlimited Power – Book, and Personal Power Audio Program.

Here are some thoughts of those who have invested in the event:

How would you summarise Date with Destiny in 1 sentence?

Anthony Leong: An expensive, but worth it, life-changing experience, that was fun, exhausting and exhilarating.

Christie Jenkins: A personal development rock concert that can change your life forever.

Christina Wallace: Date with Destiny is what you do when you make a true decision to make real changes in your life, have massive breakthroughs, and step into your true authentic self!

What was your purpose for attending Date with Destiny?

Anthony Leong: To get my mojo back with regard to starting another business, after achieving all my previous goals overseas .Was there a main reason/breakthrough you wanted from the event?

Christie Jenkins: I’ve always been interested in sports psychology and the mental side of high performance so I went looking to learn more about that. But I left with much more than that.

Christina Wallace: My purpose for attending Date with Destiny was to gain clarity on my values and purpose in life. The most important breakthrough for me was to delete past limiting beliefs and establish clear values for my future; to unleash my personal power to create a compelling and fulfilling future.

What is was your greatest personal breakthrough moment or principle gained from Date with Destiny?

Anthony Leong: The conviction, which has lead to action, that putting my wife first is the most important thing I can do for my happiness.

Christie Jenkins: Tony makes a distinction between the ‘science of achievement’ and the ‘art of fulfilment’. Until DWD I’d never really understood how you could develop a sense of fulfilment without losing some of your edge on the achievement side of the equation. The exercises around values and primary question helped me reconcile this tension in my mind.

Christina Wallace: My greatest personal breakthrough happened on Transformation day, when I was able to release the little girl inside who had protected me from danger, abuse, and being left alone. I was able to express my gratitude, and let her go because she no longer served me. I was able to recognize that I am safe, loved, and protected by source, the universe, God. I am able to love all of me, forgive all my judgements, and let go of the parts that no longer serve me.

Is there anything at all you didn’t like about Date With Destiny?

Anthony Leong: The meditation did not seem different from other meditations.  It was built up a lot, but for me, didn’t deliver.

Christie Jenkins: As an athlete it was difficult for me to sit inside for so long – they certainly aren’t generous with breaks during the sometimes 15 hour days! That was a physical challenge for me. I also skipped out on Mike and his sales pitch as it felt very negative and not aligned with the energy of the rest of the event.

Christina Wallace: I would have enjoyed more team time, to get to know people more individually on our team, and have a team challenge. I would also like more information for Relationship day, the interventions were very long and some content on feminine and masculine energies was omitted.

Nearly 2 months on, have you been able to maintain the momentum gained from the DWD event?

Anthony Leong: Yes.  Still repeating my primary question and mission statement daily multiple times.  Still repeating my power virtues and noticing my away value of humiliation not affecting me as much as it used to.  Have more faith in the future and not feel I need to control everything for certainty or constantly prove myself for significance which is a huge weight off my shoulders.  I remember that I alone am responsible for the state that I am in.

Christie Jenkins: The week after the event I crashed hard catching up on sleep deprivation! I actually left DWD not with a need for more momentum, but a need to enjoy the moment more. I think it’s probably unsustainable to live your whole life at such a peak energy state. What I’ve tried to do is recalibrate my natural energy state to be slightly higher, and to know that DWD is the high-bar for a maximum energy state which I can go into on occasion.

Christina Wallace: YES! Because I had already hired a life coach, have been part of an amazing Master Mind from UPS San Jose, and have an accountability partner, I have been able to make amazing shifts and progress. I will also redo my poster to re-evaluate my values and goals with SMART goals, and measurable actions using RPM planning.

What, if any great results have you achieved which you would attribute to DWD and the principles gained there?

Anthony Leong: The above.  Also, moving toward love and contribution as my main human needs, I enjoy more the time with my wife and kids more, despite the challenges of raising two young kids, and I have increased my giving/lending to KIVA.

Christie Jenkins: I can’t point to one significant life change that has occurred after my time at DWD, more the accumulation of small changes. I was already doing what I wanted to do with my life before the event so I’ve made slight adjustments to the way I think about things and the energy I bring to things.

Christina Wallace: Learning my old values and top needs was huge. Now that I have assessed and created new towards and away values, I am so much happier and more fulfilled. My new top 3 towards goals are: 1) Health and vitality, 2) Love & connection, 3) Financial Freedom, which serve me in focusing my actions and allow me to feel successful daily! I also use RPM planning more effectively since DWD.

Would you recommend date with destiny to anyone? Why/Why not?

Anthony Leong: I would, if you plan to continue to use the tools in your life after, not just at the event.  In any case the interventions are a pleasure and privilege to witness live and the decisions and distinctions you make can be life changing.

Christie Jenkins: Most of the people in the room either have some interest in personal development, or are completely stuck and frustrated with a major area of their life. Having said that, I believe there is something in it for everyone. You get the performance of your body checked at the doctor every year, so why wouldn’t you also do the same for your thoughts and emotions.

Christina Wallace: YES! I have recommended DWD to many people already, however, I also recommend hiring a success coach first. My coach was able to help me clear a lot and set clear intentions before attending DWD, so I maximized my experience and outcomes.

In your opinion, what was the greatest thing about DWD?

Anthony Leong: The interventions (Intervention meaning Strategic Intervention, is where Tony dives deep into a 1 on 1 transformation with an individual, this is a big part of the event)

Christie Jenkins: I’m in awe of Tony’s ability as a speaker. He would hold the room completely captivated for hours and hours on end. People would be busting for the bathroom and not want to leave, and when they did finally succumb to their bladders they would sprint to the bathroom!

Christina Wallace: The greatest thing about DWD was the alignment of towards and away values, and learning about relationships regarding feminine and masculine energies. I also met the most amazing people, and had such support from my accountability partner!

What are your thoughts about the energy in the room every day? 

Anthony Leong: Powerful energy of love in the room

Christie Jenkins: It’s off the charts. Literally like being at a concert except no one judges you for your stupid dance moves at DWD.

Christina Wallace: The energy in the room was AMAZING!! I went to the Gold Coast, and fell in love with the Aussies! Tony, Scotty, and all the trainers & mentors were so awesome! The crew brought the energy up to a whole new level!!

During the event, you will likely hug more humans than you have in your life, and dance longer than you have in your life too. Tony does this to get you in a positive, powerful state.

Anthony Leong: It grows on you, then you get right into it.  I continue the dancing at home at times, to the amusement of my kids. Hugs are always great – easy way to feel good.

Christina Wallace: Dancing was the BEST!

You will learn about the 6 human needs, and how your needs control your decisions.

What were your Top 2 human needs and how were they restricting you from the life you wanted?

Anthony Leong: Certainty and significance helped me be successful, but would not allow me to be happy as you can’t control the future, no matter how much you influence it, and there will always be a bigger fish for you to compare yourself to.

Christie Jenkins: Previously my top two needs were significance and growth. I was happy with growth and it remains one of my top two. While I still love achieving things, I can do it with a motivation that goes beyond simply chasing significance. Removing significance from my top two will also make it a lot easier to experience a meaningful relationships and deeper friendships.

Christina Wallace: My top 2 human needs used to be certainty and significance, they restricted me from the life I wanted because I was too concerned with how people would see me or what others thought. I was also too scared to take a real risk and go for it!

What are your top 2 human needs now, and how is your life better from this shift? 

Anthony Leong: Love and growth.  Love brings so much joy in my life so I now emphasise hugging and savouring my wife and kids (particularly when they are in a good mood   ).   I am putting my wife first, at least a lot more than I used to and it has improved our relationship.  Another thing that makes me happy is growth, which, regardless of whether others see it, feels good to me, as the small wins feel great and add up to something pretty awesome in any area of life.

Christie Jenkins: Growth is still there, and I chose love as my second one. It’s a huge shift for me and there are still plenty of times where I see significance thinking creeping back into my life. It’s led me to reframe how I think about achievement from a predominantly self-focused point of view, to considering how what I achieve might have a broader impact. For example, winning a sporting tournament gives you the profile to mentor and inspire young athletes and the power to influence the structure of the sport for the better.

Christina Wallace: My top needs now are love & connection, and Contribution! Growth is at the top as well, I am consistently growing with daily personal development, my mastermind tribe, reading, and learning daily.

1 full day at Date with Destiny is dedicated to Relationships:

What was your biggest takeaway from Relationship day?

Anthony Leong: To man up and realise that my wife becomes more masculine and bossy when she’s stressed or scared.  To make sure that there is polarity of masculine and feminine in the relationship, and always know that we have the best of intentions.  Putting her first and letting her know that has created more intimacy in the relationship.

Christie Jenkins: Relationship day was one ‘aha’ after another of ‘well now I know why I’m single’! The breakthrough for me was a transformation in my thinking around showing vulnerability and femininity. Prior to DWD I’d considered displaying these as a sign of weakness. I realized that it takes far more courage and strength to show your vulnerability than it does to maintain an outward appearance of strength.

Christina Wallace: My biggest takeaway was about the masks, that a real feminine core can be masked by a masculine and then masked by what she thinks is being feminine. That was so eye-opening!

Do you think the principles learned that day will enhance your relationship? (Or get you into a relationship if you weren’t in one) ((or END your relationship if it was an unhealthy one)

Anthony Leong: Yes, they have.

Christie Jenkins: I’ll have to put that to the test when I next find myself in a relationship. Gentlemen… feel free to ask me out and we can share our relationship visions

Christina Wallace: YES!! I learned so much that has already enhanced the relationship I have with myself, and will make my next relationship so much more amazing!

You will learn about living in a beautiful state, and how to get in a powerful state every day.

How has learning about the power of your STATE changed your life & what you do to get in state every day. 

Anthony Leong: I have realised that state is so much of the solution to most problems.  We are all better people in the right state, and can be awful in the wrong state.  I do gratitude exercises, listen to inspiring music, jump up and down or watch a short documentary called ‘Slomo’ on youtube that inspires me.

Christie Jenkins: I’ve used my incantations (usually while driving so if you see someone yelling at the top of their lungs it’s not road range, it’s me getting into a beautiful state). This has been an addition to the visualization that I do regularly to prepare myself to compete in my sport.

Christina Wallace: A grateful, centered, and joyous state is key to daily outcomes and enjoying the most of life. Living in the zone of fulfillment is dependent upon living in a beautiful empowering state. I do priming, meditation, exercise, and saying my definite major purpose statement every morning. I also live in a constant beautiful state of joyous expectancy.  I shake my ASS as much as possible!!

The importance of  “living in a beautiful state” – What does it mean to you? 

Anthony Leong: Before I used to rely on strategy and use my intellect which are great for business, but for happiness, living in a beautiful state and self managing it is key.

Christie Jenkins: A beautiful state means holding appreciation for your life and the present moment in your mind. To be in that state, be in the now (not thinking about the past or future) and find gratitude for something around you or within you.

Masculine and Feminine energies – your takeaway from these principles.

Anthony Leong: Polarity of the energies in a marriage is vital, otherwise we would just be friends/room mates.

Christie Jenkins: Masculine is not strong and feminine is not weak – each of these energies requires courage and commitment to live in.

Christina Wallace: My biggest takeaway is that a true masculine needs freedom and appreciation. And I need to nurture my feminine energy by being vulnerable, playful, and allowing my man to be my hero!

You will learn how to master MEANING, knowing that YOU control your reactions to every situation in your life.

How has the old story and your new story have changed your life?

Christie Jenkins: I’ve always believed strongly in taking personal accountability for you achievements and for your enjoyment of your life. You learn that pretty quickly through sport where winning and losing and the emotions that go with it are entirely your responsibility. So my story hasn’t really changed, I’ve just added a touch more gratitude for all the opportunities I’ve had.

Your old and new values: How have they changed and how has that improved your life?

Anthony Leong: They have made me feel happier and less fearful of rejection or humiliation.

Christie Jenkins: My old values were winning, freedom, making someone proud of me, growth and recognition. And my life definitely reflected that – I’m an athlete so winning is part of my job description. I also developed a lifestyle that saw me travel 8 months of the year overseas – plenty of freedom. My new values are growth, love, courage (because love takes courage!), audacity / boldness, impact and leadership. The change is to bring more a focus on fulfilment and relationships into my life, and to think about achievement from the perspective of making and impact and being a leader. Ask me again in a year and we will see some big changes I’m sure.

Your old and new primary question: How have they changed and how has that improved your life?

Anthony Leong: Allows me to focus on love and growth rather than frantically trying to get shit done, which I get done anyway.

Christie Jenkins:  My old question was ‘how can I win at this?’ My friends and family will tell you that I am extremely competitive and no wonder when I go around asking myself this question. My new question makes my brain appreciate the present moment and the people around me: ‘how can I celebrate and share even more of who I am, and who others are, in this moment?’

One sentence to describe yourself before the event and yourself after the event. “From…. to…”

Anthony Leong: From having an itch inside I couldn’t scratch to feeling the love

Christie Jenkins: From orange to yellow… you have to go and experience the event to understand my answer!

Contributions and reviews provided by:
Anthony Leong
Occupation: Chiropractor
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Christie Jenkins
Occupation: Speaker, professional athlete (beach volleyball), management consultant
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Christina Wallace
Occupation: Educator, mother, author, personal results coach, and transformation coach in education, business, and nonprofit organizations.
CEO of EmpowerTeach and Founder of EmpowersU, non-profit empowering others to have breakthroughs in their lives.
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Everyone wants some level of success in their lives. Whether you are talking financial success, relationship success, family, work, business or sporting success… Whatever “success” means to you, you can obtain it and it really isn’t that hard when you follow some simple principles used by those at the highest level. Here are 5 Steps To Success:

5 Steps To Success – The Ultimate Simple Success Formula

1. SET GOALS.

You can’t expect to hit your target if you don’t know what the target is. A man without goals is like a pilot without a destination. You could end up anywhere and it most likely won’t be pretty.
DEFINE what you want and WHY you want it and write it down. This is the first and most important step toward obtaining anything you want in life – knowing clearly what it is you want and setting a DEADLINE of when you want to achieve it.

It’s no use writing down your goals if you only do it one time and then forget about it. Keep it fresh in your mind by reviewing it every single day. For best results do it morning and night.

Break your goals down into mini-goals, mini action steps you can take to reach your main goal. For example:
If your goal is to make $1 million this year, your mini goals might be.
1. Complete the development of your product by ____
2. Develop a successful marketing plan by ___
3. Sell 1000 products at $100 each within 12 months

Although this is very simplistic the process of breaking down your goals makes it easier to take action and achieve them.

Goals without action are just dreams. Make your dreams a reality by taking massive action towards your goals.
Write down 3 key action steps you can take toward your goal immediately and take that action! If you need to: do this every day until you reach your goal.
If you have to work like a crazy person for a temporary period to bring your dream to life: DO IT. If the reward is worth fighting for, fight for it!

Visualize and feel what it would be like when you complete your goal.
This process activates strong feelings in your brain and emotions and when you are emotionally attached to a result you are much more likely to see it through to success.
Some prefer the process of vision boards, and others simply like to meditate or write down what they want. Whatever works for you: do that, just make sure you engage the emotion of what it would feel like to have your goal achieved.

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7 Common Excuses Why You Can’t & 7 Reasons Why You CAN!

Excuse #1. Time

If there is one thing we all have equal it is time. Successful people use their time well, and unsuccessful people don’t, it really is that simple. Successful people plan ahead. They schedule daily, weekly and sometimes monthly important tasks and they make sure they always PRIORITIZE the most important jobs first.
No one will ever be able to “get it all done” so it is important you use your time wisely and always do the most important, highest reward tasks first. Review your day today and see which things are taking you closer toward the life you want, and which are using up your time for no future reward. Remove the latter and you will have more time to fill with things that will improve your chances of success.

Excuse #2. Opportunity

This is a big one, because in truth we don’t all have equal opportunity. Some are born into families with great wealth, some get “lucky” along the way. However a few things are for sure:
1. We ALL have the opportunity to be better than we were yesterday.
2. We ALL have the opportunity to learn more, grow more and succeed more every single day.
3. You can find plenty of examples of humans who seemed to have very little, or NO opportunity, yet achieved their dream life, built huge wealth and happiness through DETERMINATION, PLANNING and HARD WORK. If they have done it, you can too. There are no excuses.
If you have less opportunity than others, you might have to work a little harder, you definitely won’t get your dream life by complaining about your lack of opportunities, it is up to you to make it happen.

Excuse #3. The Past

This excuse can come in many forms. ‘Someone wronged me in the past’, ‘this happened in the past so now I’m so far behind I can’t get there’ and in and on it goes. Listen: you can either have results or excuses, you can’t have both. Your past is gone, what is the point in using up your precious energy, draining yourself of power, all for something you CAN NOT CHANGE?! You have to let go of the past, whatever happened, whoever wronged you, let it go! That doesn’t mean you let them get away with it, it means YOUR FUTURE and YOUR HAPPINESS is more important than your excuses.
Take responsibility for your life, NOW. Leave the past behind and create a better future!

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Excuse #4. Money

Many out there claim that they can’t succeed because they (or their parents/family) don’t have the finances to start. We are in 2016 people, not 1916. The majority of big business these days are started (and grown) with investor funding. If you truly have a great business, not an idea, but something to offer, there will be plenty of investors and backers. If you truly want it bad enough, you will find a way to get the money, whatever it takes – begging, friends, family, crowd funding – make it happen.

Excuse #5. It’s too hard

The theory that it is too hard to go after your dream life is crazy to any successful person, who can clearly see living a life you DON’T WANT is much harder than the temporary discomfort & effort required to make that dream happen.
It’s much harder living with regret for your entire life, than living with struggle and discomfort for a short period while you work your way to your dream.

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Excuse #6. I don’t know what to do or where to start.

Chances are, whatever your goal is, there is someone you can reference that has started and succeeded and similar conditions. Find reference points of highly successful people, use their success (and failures) as valuable reference points, and tweak it to suit your business or goal. Model the greats but always do it in your unique way.

Excuse #7. The conditions aren’t right, I’ll do it when I have more____

The time will never be right and the conditions will never be perfect! You must take action. Even the smallest step to get you going, get some momentum. Once you start heading toward your dream life, you usually can’t stop, because if it is really for you, you will be so excited with the possibilities that thoughts will flow, opportunities will arise and your goal will become more important than all the insignificant things in your life. Don’t wait for the conditions to be right to start. Start, and make the conditions right along the way.

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No Man! 5 Times You Must Say No:

No Excuses!

The world is riddled with people that argue until they’re blue in the face about why they CAN’T achieve things in life. Sadly, these excuse makers will never achieve anything significant in life, because rather than TRY, they instead come up with all the reasons why they can’t succeed and never even attempt anything they really want to do.
Sure, some have tougher circumstances to work around than others, but almost always the excuses made are from PAST events. “I will never be where I want to be because ___ happened in my past”. There is no excuse as to why you can’t take action right NOW. There’s no excuse as to why you can’t get a little closer every day to the life you really want.

No Limits.

Like excuses, so many people these days argue for their limitations. The majority of people would never BELIEVE it is POSSIBLE for them to become a millionaire, much less a billionaire, however a simple Google search would show you thousands of stories of the top 1% earners in the world who started from very humble beginnings, some who have come back from bankruptcy and many who succeeded later in life. Often their circumstances were far worse than your current one, so if they can do it, why not you?

No Procrastination 

The secret to getting ahead is GETTING STARTED! No, tomorrow is not going to cut it. If you truly want a better life, when you DECIDE something: TAKE ACTION right away. Not tomorrow, not when you have more time, not when X happens, RIGHT NOW.
Once you get started you will get momentum and if you create the habit to take action daily, all your small efforts will add up to big results in time.

No Doubt!

This doesn’t mean things won’t go wrong, or you won’t experience challenges and hard times – challenges & hard times are normal for anyone trying to get something extraordinary in life. It means “I BELIEVE IN THE END, NOT RIGHT NOW, BUT IN THE END I WILL ACHIEVE MY GOAL” it’s knowing it will most likely will be hard, but also knowing that I will do whatever it takes to push through the obstacles and reach success!

No Regrets!

One of the worst human emotions is that of regret. There isn’t many worse feelings in life that knowing you should have done something, but didn’t. Never let the fear of failure get in the way of the possibility of success. Try and try again until you reach your destination!

There you go Mr or Mrs No, leave your comments below and make sure you share this on social media with your Friends who should say No more often

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10 Common Habits Of All Successful People

1. They Set GOALS.

2. They Take Responsibility For Their Life.

Your energy is always best spent in the present, and planning for the future. Your thought process should always be “how can I make this work” and “what can I learn from this”. Never living in the past or making excuses as to why you aren’t where you should be. Remember EVERYONE suffers setbacks, everyone has the opportunity to either blame others & circumstances, or to focus on moving on and creating a better future.

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3. They Have Great Self Discipline

Discipline is a strong trait of all successful people, and it is one that can be developed with consistent use. Anyone that works from home or unsupervised knows the importance of self discipline – when alone do you choose to troll social media, watch cat videos on YouTube, or do something that will be beneficial for your future?

It is much easier to have discipline if you have clear goals and a meaningful purpose, something much more important than your distractions.

4. They Are Obsessed With Self Development

You can’t really claim to be successful if you have given up working on yourself. This doesn’t mean you are never satisfied, just that you know it is human nature to want to grow and learn new things.

Be open to learn new things and develop your mind, through mentors, audio books and reading. The more you learn the more you earn.

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5. They Read. A LOT!

Reading is a common past time of many highly successful people. The majority these days can’t sit alone for 2 minutes without becoming “bored” picking up their phone to go on social media, probably to post about how bored they are. Successful people you will find are always happy to be alone, to be quiet, to have the opportunity read something that will benefit their mind, and their future.

If you’re not a reader, try audio books. You can play them in your car and use time that might normally be wasted (travelling to work for example) to gain new skills, new strengths.

6. They Manage Their Time Well

Time management is essential to success. Unsuccessful people are usually frazzled when there are too many tasks on their to-do list. Successful people are never fazed, they prioritize the big-payoff and most rewarding tasks first, and leave the insignificant ones to last, knowing it doesn’t matter if they get it all done or not.

Successful people plan in advance, days, weeks, months ahead, knowing clearly what needs to be done to complete their jobs and reach their goals.

7. They Take Risks

If you don’t by a ticket, you can’t win the raffle. If you don’t take big risks you can’t achieve big rewards. Successful people know that there will be times they will need to take risks in order to get where they need to go. Often most people won’t take those same risks for fear of failure, however the greater failure to successful people would be that of regret.

8. They Keep Going When They Suffer Failure & Setbacks

We all suffer setbacks. Every single person that attempts to live their dream life suffers through failure, many lose everything. Most quit, the successful never quit. They keep going, knowing their greatest character is formed in adversity. Knowing their success story is being written in every moment, and it will be especially good now they have a comeback story.

9. They Find A Way To Win

Successful people FIND A WAY. Period. Whatever life throws their way, they deal with it, dodge it, smash through it, whatever is required they find a way to win. It’s the whatever it takes mentality. It’s the confidence in knowing whatever happens, I will give my all and leave nothing on the table. I WILL FIND A WAY TO WIN!

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10. They Do What They Love

If you are not doing what you love, you can’t really claim yourself a success. Spending the majority of our life (your working hours) doing things you hate, for money, is not successful living. It’s torture to the soul. Find your life purpose. Think of all the things you love to do more than anything in the world, then brainstorm how you can turn those passions into profit, doing what you love every day. Even if you are taking a pay cut it will be worth it. Do what you love every day, and you will never work a day in your life.

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Oh, bless the haters. Bless them, for we should feel sorry for them, not hate them back. Feel sorry for them, because it must be a miserable existence for those who are unable to have respect and compassion for others. It must be miserable having to feel like the only way you can feel good about yourself is by trying to belittle those who attempt something more than you. Haters, we don’t hate you, we feel sorry for you. Here are 5 Reasons You Shouldn’t Hate The Haters

5 Reasons You Shouldn’t Hate The Haters

1. If They Knew Better, They’d Do Better.

Why do haters troll the internet, for the sole purpose of putting others down? They believe that somehow, in dragging down others (usually those who are higher than them), they will somehow feel better about themselves. Why do they need to engage in this pathetic behaviour? Because that’s what they have learnt along their life’s journey. Maybe their family done it before them, maybe their peer group does it. What is for certain is that, if they knew better they would do better. If they knew their energy would be much better spent on focusing how they could improve their own life, rather that belittling someone else’s, they might focus on that instead.

2. They Are Usually Miserable & Often Jealous

Let’s be clear. Anyone that feels the need to take time out of their day and spew negative energy on another human being can’t be too happy with their own life. I’ve never met a successful person that trolls the internet hating on people that are less successful than them. Haters always appear from the little-me mentalities and are born mostly out of jealousy. I truly feel sorry for most haters, because no happy, peaceful person would ever deliberately try to bring down another. The hate is most often born from jealousy. Jealousy that person succeeded and they didn’t.

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3. They Will Never Amount To Anything (Unless They Change)

I can’t imagine too many people that would love, and support a hater. Not even fellow haters support haters. Although it is pretty obvious most haters are from the lowest form of humanity, and will never amount to anything, for those higher level haters, just remember: Karma doesn’t miss a beat!

4. They Give You Fuel

If you are the type that likes to prove others wrong, haters can be your greatest source of energy, and push you to the next level.
Don’t let their negative energy get you down. Use it as fuel, and ensure one day they will eat their words

5. Sometimes They Give You Valuable Feedback

It’s rare, but some haters might offer some decent (negative, but constructive) feedback on your product, service, game, that might be helpful for your growth in that area. No one likes to be criticized, but all of the great successful leaders are known to listen closely to criticism to improve their product and service. This doesn’t mean all haters offer valuable comments, some are just uneducated fools with putrid mouths, but on the odd occasion one might surprise you with constructive criticism.

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5 Things You Must Work On Before You Can Conquer The World:

1. Your Physical Body

It is extremely difficult, if not impossible to be in the right frame of mind if my physical body is unhealthy and lacking energy. A strong, fit and energetic physical body can set the tone for many other areas of your life. Aside from increasing energy, which will enable you to achieve more, it will give you more confidence and belief that you can conquer anything.
Set clear, specific goals related to improving your physical health and watch how determined you become to achieve in all other areas of your life.

2. Your Mind

The human mind is our greatest asset, but it can also be our worst enemy.

There is nothing more powerful than your mind. If you can consciously give it power, and strength, rather than feeding it doubt and worry, you will likely continue climbing the ladder of success.
However, if you get lazy, and stop working on yourself. If you stop making self development, learning and growing a priority in your life – your mind may grow some weeds (doubt, worry, fear, insecurities) that may take time to clean out. Make it a priority to keep your mind strong. Learn from the greats. Meditate. Get Grateful. Feed your mind with positive energy. Make it a must you have time for yourself every day, it really is that important.

3. Your Limited Beliefs

Your beliefs about what is and what is not possible will shape your life like nothing else. Someone with a strong belief in themselves is far more likely to achieve high levels of success, than someone without belief, who may not even try, for fear they will fail. Beliefs are the hardest thing to change in a human because they are built from a lifetime of conditioning. The only way to change your limited beliefs is to recondition your mind for success. Feed your mind with self development material. Learn about those who have achieved whatever it is you are trying to achieve, so you KNOW, it IS POSSIBLE. Then, once you know it is possible, break down the steps needed to reach your targets. YOU CAN DO IT! Nothing is impossible!

4. Your Procrastination

“Studies have shown that the most successful people make decisions rapidly because they are clear on their values and what they really want for their lives. The same studies show that they are slow to change their decisions, if at all. On the other hand, people who fail usually make decisions slowly and change their minds quickly, always bouncing back and forth. Just decide!” – Tony Robbins

If you want to be successful, get in the habit of making quick decisions. The only way you can make quick decisions is if you are definite about the direction you have in life. You must know your life purpose, your “why” – Because when you know your purpose, every decision becomes easier to make – “Is this decision taking me closer to my dream/my purpose or further away”

5. Your Gratitude

Gratitude is one of the greatest powers on earth. Those who live in gratitude, live in happiness. If there is one daily principle you should adopt in your life, it is gratitude. The feeling of gratitude for everything you do have in your life, fills your life with instant happiness and positive vibes. If you start with this every single morning you are so much more likely to have a positive, productive day, regardless of the circumstances. Speak this every morning and feel the power in it: “Thank you for this day, whatever it brings, if it is a challenge that i need to develop, or an unexpected blessing, whatever it is, thank you”

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I am not what happened to me – I AM what i CHOOSE to become – Carl Jung

What is “Victim Mentality”?

Victim mentality is an acquired (learned) personality trait in which a person tends to regard him or herself as a victim of the negative actions of others, and to behave like it were the case—even in the absence of clear evidence. It depends on habitual thought processes and attribution.

The term is also used in reference to the tendency for blaming one’s misfortunes on somebody else’s misdeeds, which is also referred to as victimism.[1]

Victim mentality is primarily learned, for example, from family members and situations during childhood. It contrasts with the psychologically better-researched traits of neuroticism. Neuroticism may be defined as general emotional instability or a generally enhanced tendency to experience negative emotions. Psychoticism is characterised by hostility and aggression.

What victim mentality, neuroticism and psychoticism have in common is a relatively high frequency of negative emotional states such as anger, sadness, and fear. Source: Wikipedia

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