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Transcript: LEARN FROM YOUR HATERS – Tom Bilyeu

Being insulted is amazing. It’s one of the best things that could happen to you. Why? Because when people want to hurt you, they’re going to come after you with something real.

Nobody throws an insult at you that they think is patently ridiculous. The things that they insult you for are the things that they know are going to get under your skin, and if you can take that in, if you can let that pain wake you up to something you may not have wanted to look at, if you can let that attack become something that empowers you, because you’re willing to listen, you’re able to separate the message from the messenger.

You’re able to see that even though what they’re trying to do is hurt you, that in there, there is a nugget of truth, and the way that I think about that, is when people throw something at me, they’re throwing a nugget of gold, and yes, it sucks every time you get hit in the face with a nugget of gold. But if you don’t throw your defences up, if you take that shot, suddenly at your feet is something very valuable, something that you can use, and all you have to do is be willing to pick it up, be willing to hold it in your hand and look at it, and see it for what it is, which is the truth.

And in the truth, then you can see how you really are, and once you see how you really are, then you can make that change, but it all begins with the pain. It all begins with the suffering. It all begins with an insult. It all begins with something aimed to take you down, but when you have the mentality of a learner, when your identity is around self-improvement, when the thing that makes up who you are is your single-minded willingness to stare naked at your inadequacies, suddenly you can change.

Suddenly, it doesn’t hurt so much to have somebody say something. As long as it’s true, you’re willing to use it. As long as it’s true, you’re willing to take it on board, and see how you can improve and get better but first, you must stop being willfully blind to your inadequacies. You must stop being willfully blind to the mistakes that you make.

You must stop being willfully blind to the areas that you need to improve if you want to achieve the things that you say you want to achieve, but that’s where people get stuck. They get stuck in self-esteem. They get stuck building their self-esteem around something that is weak, something that is fragile, something that can be attacked.

And that’s why you have to build your self-esteem around something truly anti-fragile, something that the more it is attacked, the stronger it becomes, and the only thing that I’ve ever seen that’s like that is to identify as the learner. Once you identify, once your very sense of self is that of someone who improves, someone who’s willing to look at the truth, someone who’s willing to hear the hard, and difficult, and painful truths about who you really are, because you know that the thing that makes you great is your willingness to look at that and to improve.

Once you have that mentality, once you’re willing to push yourself and improve and become something extraordinary, that is the thing that’s going to give you that pride and that sense of self-esteem, because you were willing to stare at the things that you find ugly about yourself, because you know you can make them beautiful. And that’s the difference between the person who throws an insult at you. They have not yet figured that out, and they need to tear you down to try to make themselves bigger.

But you don’t need to do that, because you have an aim. You know what you’re trying to become, and the relentless pursuit of that mandates that you accept who you really are right now as a means to figure out the new skillset that you need to acquire to live the life that you wanna live, but focus only on that. Don’t worry about people trying to tear you down.

Don’t worry about anything other than what is true, what is needed, for you to cross the chasm of skillset to get from where you are to where you want to be, because that is the most important question life is ever going to ask. Who do you wanna become, and what’s the price you’re willing to pay to get there? So ask yourself right now: what price are you willing to pay for greatness?

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Why?

Because as you embark on the next phase of your story, into the new year and set new goals. You’re going to want to progress to another level. You’re going to start that business, hit that goal you’ve been eyeing off all year and make some big life changes.

When that happens, you’re bound to get judgment from others. Haters if you will. And that’s part of the process of changing and evolving into the ultimate version of you.

But it will not stop you. Use them as fuel to FIRE UP and become the person you were meant to become in 2019.

Use These Hater Quotes to Fuel Your Fire

“I don’t worry about the haters. They are just angry because the truth I speak contradicts the lie they live.” – Steve Maraboli

Steve Maraboli is a genius. I’d argue this is my favorite hater quote out there!

If you’re have haters, whether it’s online on social media or in your personal life, listen to it.

Learn how that negativity is usually just a contradiction of the success you’re creating. I’m sure once you notice, you’ll realize that the people who are the loudest are often living the biggest lies.

“Learn to use criticism as fuel and you will never run out of energy.” – Orrin Woodward | Hater Quotes

It’s easy to get down when people start hating on your dreams. In fact, the mind wants to help you. Remember, it’s a survival machine. So when it feels pain from negativity and critics, it wants to help you avoid that pain in the future.

But you can’t let it hold you back. You have to use that hate as fuel to keep going. Get really quiet in your life so you don’t even hear the noise. If you’re doing what you love and going toward your dreams, that’s all that matters. I guarantee it will be worth it.

“Hate is too great a burden to bear. It injures the hater more than it injures the hated.” – Coretta Scott King | Hater Quotes

Oftentimes, when you’re making changes and people don’t like it. It’s because they see you becoming the person they wish they could be. They become angry that you were brave enough to stare back defiantly in the face of fear. While they cower in the shadows spewing hatred to any bum willing to listen.

They don’t have the self discipline, willpower or perseverance to make it happen. So instead of helping you, they try to bring you down to their level.

“No matter how good you are, someone is always going to be against you. But never let them be the limit of your success.” – Unknown | Hater Quotes

Give up on trying to please everyone in the world. Even the best of the best in the world, still have critics and online trolls. Focus on your vision and give it 100% effort daily, don’t let them drag you down, break free and burst into life.

“People who hate you because of a mere jealousy over your success hurt themselves in disguise. This is because you carry an image of who they wish they had become. Don’t hate them back because they may also become like you one day and it will mean hurting that image you carry!” – Israelmore Ayivor

Lets face it, if you’re getting hate, it’s easy to want to project it back into the world. In fact, it’s easier than not doing it. But you can’t let your emotions control you.

Because if you do, you’re no better than them. Simply stay focused and keep a positive mindset to attract more good into your life. If you feel excessive anger or doubt that just means you have more work to do, on yourself. Feed your mind with success daily.

“The best way to counter-attack a hater is to make it blatantly obvious that their attack has had no impact on you.” – Tim Ferriss | Hater Quotes

The next time someone goes out of their way to hate on you, flip it 100%. Give them a compliment, wish them success, laugh about it or do something different to show them it doesn’t affect you. I promise they’ll be so confused they won’t know what to do!

Remember, as Shannon L Alder said, “You will face your greatest opposition when you are closest to your biggest miracle.” I promise, your moment is closer than you realize.

Block out the noise and keep going until you become the person you were meant to become.

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Without support, it makes it easier to quit and go back to a normal life. But you cannot let others choose the outcome of your life.

If you’re truly passionate about turning your dream into a reality, you can do it. Let no one convince you otherwise.

This is how you stay motivated when no one can see your vision.

1. Know Your Mission

Clarity equals power. To stay motivated in pursuit of your big goal or dream, you have to get clear about what you’re trying to accomplish and why you’re trying to accomplish it. Why you’re doing it, is more important than what you’re doing.

As legendary motivational speaker, Eric Thomas said, “If your why don’t make you cry, then that’s not your why.” Write it down, affirm it, and review your vision every single day. Become obsessed with completing the next step towards your mission and leave no doubt when you get home that you gave everything.

2. Focus on Alone Time

As the great Albert Einstein said, “The monotony and solitude of a quiet life stimulates the creative mind.” If no one is believing in you, it’s up to you to build inner belief by getting clear and focusing on your goal.

Spend time meditating, journaling, and enjoying peace and quiet. Listen to motivational videos, read the best books on self growth you can find, and remind yourself daily why you’re doing this.

Each morning, make an effort to spend some time alone. This is one of the easiest ways to gain clarity and start to build belief within yourself. While it’s important to socialise, most often it’s when you are alone that you will learn the answers to life’s toughest questions.

3. Follow The Footsteps of Success

Unless you’re trying to live on the sun, chances are someone has already done what you want to do. Or at least some version of it. That should be extremely motivating.

Instead of trying to do it all on your own, you should start modeling what they did and learn from them where possible. Read their book, buy their course or hire a coach in that field. Even try to contact the person you’re modelling directly, you’ll be amazed at how far genuine passion will get you.

I recommend finding 3-5 people who are doing what you want to do and start following on social media if you don’t already. Then, reach out to them, learn from them and most importantly outwork them.

Study them, and soon enough you will end up being one of them. I’m sure they all fought off endless amounts of criticism too! When you do make it big, you can give back by helping the next person achieve their dreams.

4. Celebrate The Small Wins

When no one believes in you, it’s up to you to create your own momentum. Small wins are crucial when you’re trying to do something massive. While it’s easy to skip the small wins, your mind is actually craving the dopamine hit you get from them.

Each day before you go to bed, try and write out three wins for the day. Whether it’s hitting the gym, making that tough call, stepping closer to your goal or whatever else. It’s a great habit to build momentum and confidence within yourself.

Forgetting your small wins & focusing only on the fact you haven’t ‘made it’ yet or achieved your current goal, will set you up for failure. Small wins over time lead to massive accomplishments!

5. Meet New People Regularly

If your friends and family are turning into your biggest opposition to success, it’s time to change it up. If the people that you spend the most time with don’t believe in you or your vision, they are dragging you down.

While they might mean well, it’s not going to help you. To become successful or make a big change you have to have positive and supportive people around you 100% of the time. If you want it bad enough you must be strong enough to break the chains and surround yourself with those that support your vision. If no one believes in you, you know you’re in the wrong room.

Find people who are most likely to support you and your dreams. Whether it’s finding a Facebook group, attending a seminar or watching Fearless Motivation videos. As I’ve started doing all of these activities I’ve found my momentum increases and attitudes shift dramatically.

Memorize the words of Ray Robinson, “To be a champion, you must believe in yourself when no one else does.”

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While he’s considered equal to those greats and so many from the past, the best part is that he’s been doubted his whole life. Unlike Lebron James, he wasn’t destined for stardom. He made his own success by becoming a sniper from the three-point line.

He’s proved his doubters wrong time and time again. Now he’s widely considered one of the best 3 point shooters of all time.

Steph Curry Quotes to Prove Doubters Wrong

“Be the best version of yourself in anything that you do. You don’t have to live anybody else’s story.” – Steph Curry

Steph has never tried to be someone he’s not. He is 100% his authentic self, both on and off and the court.

Are you doing the same in your life? Are you living a life that is true to yourself or are you living one for everyone else?

Don’t waste time living a life for your parents, friends, or family. The key to living a happy and successful life is one where do what you love and avoid regrets in the future.

“Sometimes people make it seem like you have to have certain prerequisites or a crazy life story in order to be successful in this world. But the truth is you really don’t.”

Success is different for everyone. Don’t feel like you have to have the rags to riches story to make it in the world. Not everyone is going to have a Tony Robbins, Oprah or another incredible story.

Become the best version of yourself and constantly get better. That’s how you become successful!

“I’ve always believed that success for anyone is all about drive, dedication, and desire, but for me, it’s also been about confidence and faith.” – Steph Curry

At the end of the day, anyone can find success but few people do. Why is that?

I think it’s because most people don’t have the drive and dedication to keep going. Most people quit when it gets tough.

But if you’re trying to accomplish greatness you have to have confidence and faith that it will work. It won’t be easy but it’s the only way to truly make it in this world.

“I’m not the guy who’s afraid of failure. I like to take risks, take the big shot and all that.” – Steph Curry Quotes

If Steph Curry isn’t afraid to fail why are you? History has proven that failure is the quickest road to success. Start thinking about failure as a means of creating the life you’ve always wanted. 

“To excel at the highest level – or any level, really – you need to believe in yourself.” – Steph Curry

Belief is something that you control, no one else does no matter what you think. Start creating success habits and rituals to build belief in yourself. Because without belief, you’ll never exceed at the highest levels in life.

“Success is born out of faith, an undying passion, and a relentless drive.” – Steph Curry Quotes 

If you have a passion don’t let it die with you. Don’t spend a life going to work at something you hate when you have a passion burning within you. Find the relentless drive inside you to pursue your greatest hopes and dreams.

While it’s going to be the harder route you’ll find more success and fulfillment than you ever imagined.

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Arnold is someone who has found tremendous success in every area of life. His story shows that you can do anything in your life with dedication and hard work.

Arnold has an amazing story for how he became successful. Like others, he suffered tons of failure, defeat, and embarrassment.

But he had a vision for what he wanted out of life, the ability to never quit and an incredible work ethic.

How to Ignore Haters & Prove Them Wrong

1. Don’t Listen to The Naysayers | Prove Them Wrong

No matter what you want to do in your life, there will always be people telling you that it can’t be done. But as Arnold says, “I hope no one ever has done it before — because then when I do it, I’ll be the first that’s ever done it!”

He was never supposed to be a 7x Mr. Olympia champion, top actor or governor of California but Arnold refused to listen to critics. He understood that haters are a part of the process of becoming successful. 

He always held the attitude, “Yes you can” and was never afraid of being different. 

2. Become Relentless for Success | Prove Them Wrong

Arnold was repeatedly told by studios he’d never make it in Hollywood. His accent was too heavy, his name was too long and he looked like a monster.

Most people would accept it and settle for average roles if they didn’t quit show business entirely. Instead, he simply didn’t accept that and became relentless to succeed. Arnold took acting classes, voice lessons, accent removal lessons, and worked tirelessly to become an A-list star.

And eventually, he did. Funny enough, when he made it big in Hollywood his accent ended up making him the success that he is today! The point is to not take no for answer.

As John Paul DeJoria said, “When I heard maybe I think yes. And when I heard no I thought maybe.” To become relentless, shift your mindset to not accept rejection.

3. Don’t Be Afraid to Get Help Along The Way | Prove Them Wrong

Trying to do everything yourself is recipe for a disaster. Instead, pick up the approach Tony Robbins talks about known as “modeling.” Figure out what successful people are doing in the field you want and learn from them. 

Remember, success leaves clues. Learn from as many people as you can to accelerate your success. Whether it’s joining a mastermind, hiring a coach or finding a mentor. Don’t feel bad asking for help.

Often times, the most successful people on the planet will want to help you as they can see their story in your life.

4. Always Help Others | Prove Them Wrong

Giving back and helping others is a foundation of successful people. Whether it is Tony Robbins, Bill Gates, Lewis Howes or Arnold, they are always giving back.

By giving back you not only help others but feel incredible afterward. As Arnold said, “Helping people will give you more satisfaction than anything else in life.”

Start Proving Them Wrong | Prove Them Wrong

As Les Brown said, “The best revenge is massive success.” Don’t spend time caring about what other people think of you and your dreams.

If someone tells you something can’t be done, it’s simply a reflection of them saying they can’t do it. Remember that anytime you’re trying to achieve something great, you’re bound to have haters and critics.

Use these four tactics from Arnold to learn how to ignore haters and stay focused on achieving your biggest goals.

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5 Reasons Why You Shouldn’t Hate The Haters (Motivational Video)

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1. If They Knew Better, They’d Do Better.
2. They Are Usually Miserable and Often Jealous.
3. They Will Never Amount To Anything… (Unless They Change)
4. They Give You Fuel.
5. Sometimes They Give You Valuable Feedback.

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Opinions, Haters & Critics – Motivational Speech (Motivational Video)

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Never allow people who gave up on their dreams convince you to give up on yours.

I won’t be led astray by the opinions of others
By those who were too scared to go after their dreams
Those who lacked the courage to fight for their dream

It’s not only your enemies and haters that will discourage you… but your own family and friends too.

Your parents almost always want what’s best for you…
They talk you out of your dream because they don’t want you to get hurt.

They’re conditioned to keep you from being hurt, going right back to when you were a baby…

YOU ARE NOT A BABY ANYMORE!
YOU ARE STRONG
YOU ARE IN CHARGE OF YOUR LIFE.
YOU ARE IN CHARGE OF YOUR DECISIONS.
You’re your own person with your own opinions!

You are capable of making your own choices.
And you are strong enough to handle the consequences if it doesn’t work out.

You are BIG ENOUGH to handle any challenge that comes, based on the DECISIONS you make, on your OWN!

You call it truth
I call it opinion…
If I wanted average I would ask for their opinion!
Please… don’t get me wrong
I’m sure average is great,
but average is not something I am seeking right now
Best of luck and move along.

Your truth is not my reality!
Your opinion will never sway my dreams!
My dreams will never be your success story
and don’t expect me to say sorry.
I will never apologise for chasing my dreams
For having higher standards
For saying no when I need to
For doing EVERY THING I must do.

OPINIONS are the cheapest commodity on earth
Just like a cheap nasty hamburger
Everyone can have one
, but it’s best you don’t digest.
But I don’t digest B.S.

There’s better food for your soul
It’s not found in others opinions
It’s found in your own inner voice
It’s the COURAGE INSIDE you
The courage that has no fear of failure
No fear of opinions

It’s found in your FOLLOWING YOUR HEART
Not what is best for mom and dad
Not what society says is good or bad
Not what will makes you look important
WHAT YOU WANT!

Critics, doubters, Haters, naysayers… they will all discourage you because they are threatened by your success.

They believe that if you become successful they will be less significant

If you become successful… they will be left behind.
By you becoming more, they will become less…
By you doing something with your life, it highlights the fact they haven’t …
It’s a small mind mentality… insecurity.

Are you going to let insecure individuals bring you down to their level??

Everyone has an opinion. Usually those with a lack of skill have a louder opinion than those with talent.

They say the hardest prison to escape is your own mind
Very often that is true
Mostly because our own minds are exploding with the opinions of others
Trying to fit in to this world
Trying to live up to others expectations
Comparing ourselves to others
Mistaking opinions for truth
Escape that prison and live free.
Live like a king and answer only to yourself.

So many people never go for what they want
 because of the fear of others opinions.
Because of the fear of the word NO
Because of haters and naysayers.
That will NEVER be me!
I REFUSE TO LISTEN TO VOICES THAT WILL NEVER understand my dream.
I REFUSE to listen to the opinions of those who have never and will probably NEVER achieve anything meaningful in their own life.

I KNOW MY PURPOSE!
I KNOW MY DESTINY!
and outside voices are just meaningless distractions.
I will NOT be swayed by the opinions of others.
I will NOT be distracted by their opinions.

I HAVE MY BLINKERS ON and I will not stop until I realize my true purpose. Until my dream is my reality.

There’s only one voice you must listen to.
Deep down you know which voice it is.

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How do you feel when someone criticizes you? Hurt, angry or both? Most people turn defensive, get their blood boiling or worse, just walk out of the situation. Dealing with criticism like a pro, however, is a good thing. It helps you identify your weaknesses and open your eyes to areas of improvement. Besides, when you are calm in the midst of a storm, it helps you build relationships and become successful at work.

So, what can you do instead of being defensive? The next time you come head to head with your haters, take a deep breath first to calm down and use any of these 10 ways to deal with the encounter graciously.

Change Behavior to Change Attitude

If your manager is constantly nitpicking on your weak spots, it’s time to change somebody’s attitude. You’ll be surprised to know you can change your manager’s attitude by changing his behavior. This is the Benjamin Franklin effect. He did this with his haters. One critic was at his neck, criticizing all the time and to break the tension, Benjamin did the most unexpected thing.

He asked to borrow a rare book from this critic’s library. Knowing Benjamin was an avid reader and collector, the critic was honored that he asked and lend the book. Benjamin returned the book a week later with a thank you card. When the critic did Benjamin a favor, it changed his attitude toward Benjamin. They become lifelong friends right up to Benjamin’s death.

Look in from the Outside

When you have an encounter with your hater, take a moment to step out of the scene. Imagine you are looking at the scene from a third person’s perspective. This will help you from taking things personally. You can feel less pain from critics when you view the situation from the outside. It gives you a chance to observe what is being said instead of focusing on the why.

Observe and Identify Patterns

Do you have a friend who is a constant downer? This is someone who has no compliments to give, but only hateful remarks. It doesn’t matter what you are happy about or excited about, this person will always shrug it away saying “it’s only normal” or “everybody does that”.

What you need to do is observe this friend when he or she is with your other friends in the group. Most likely you will see the same reactions from this friend to others too. When you notice this, remember the problem lies with your friend. It’s their own ideas, relationships, and experiences of life that nudge them to be critical of everyone.

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Remember the Good Intentions

Is the constant criticism coming from your loved ones? It’s harder to deal with haters and critics within your family or close friends. For instance, Jane and John went for an international vacation. Everything planned and thought through, they had a good time and everything. Except, Jane was in her second trimester and so, they got some flack from their loved ones.

There were two reactions to this vacation idea. One that openly criticized them for being “neglectful” and other group stayed neutral. If you find your loved ones barking at you for something you have well thought of, then remember they do it from a concern for your well-being.

Listen to Catch Validity

From everything that is being said, there must be something that is useful. These are the little gold nuggets of criticism that help you catch your weaknesses and areas of improvement. Sieve through the conversation to catch those useful bits. For instance, “internet trolls” are those who offer nothing constructive to say. They want to pass judgement and unsolicited opinions. Sometimes, haters just want to say hurtful things so you can ignore those.

Understand and Ask for Advice

You only have a few seconds before you react in an encounter. These are crucial moments to decide how you want to pave the conversation. Constructive criticism is a good thing. The benefits are many, improving your product, your skills, ideas, relationships and even expectations of your manager. So, when you find yourself in an encounter the best way to deal criticism like a pro is to step back and ask for advice. If your parents judge your spending habits, ask them for advice for money management.

Remember the Definition of Insanity

Albert Einstein once said insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results. You need to remember this in case you put yourself into the hands of your critics over and over again. Sometimes, no matter what you say haters and critics will not change their opinion on the matter. There is no point in bringing up the topic in conversation again, only to be put down, again. See, you’d do it to get a validation to your points, but you know what? Sometimes, it’s just not about you.

Show Kindness

The Benjamin Franklin Effect talks about how to change another’s behavior to get them to change their attitude. In much the same way, you can also show kindness. People do favors for the people they like. You can trick your mind into liking the person by doing nice things for them, even if they are harsh critics of your work. Being kind is about graciously reacting in an encounter. So, show grace and mercy to your haters.

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Hurt people hurt people.

Haters. Workplace, social circles, family – they can be anywhere.

And because they’re so pain-in-the-arse good at annoying you, you just want to give them a high-five, in the face, with a hammer.

But you don’t want to end up in jail. So we suggest that you understand your haters better to deal with them.

Hate never comes from a place of fulfillment and happiness. It only comes from a place of envy and lack. But haters won’t understand. And they’re not supposed to.

It’s your duty to learn the lessons and move on. Here’s how to handle insults and deal with haters:

1. See through them

It doesn’t mean you need to see them naked.

The point is to see through their bullshit. Haters hate because they feel hurt inside. It is their own frustrations that make them bitter.

In fact, if you have some haters, you deserve a pat on your back. That’s because you’ve probably done something great that they couldn’t do themselves.

Leonardo Da Vinci’s Mona Lisa painting has been regarded as the finest piece of art worldwide, Yet, some haters have thrown acid and rocks at it. Hell, some have even lobbied to have the museum burned down.

Now the beauty is protected by a bulletproof glass.

How to handle insults and hate:  See hate for what it is – jealousy in disguise.

Greatness is criticized because it is a threat to mediocrity.

2. Learn your lessons

Although, usually haters lack any substance, yet they can teach you valuable lessons.

First, you need to be impartial towards criticism. Then see if they hate you because of your own fault. If you have done something wrong, then it’s time to change your behavior.

And if it’s not your fault, there’s still a lesson to learn. The lesson is of self-acceptance, compassion, and focus.

If haters annoy you, it’s time to strengthen your focus and show more compassion towards yourself.

How to handle insults and hate: Learn the lessons of self-acceptance and focus.

3. Know that they don’t matter

This is the most important lesson when dealing with haters. Brene Brown, a seasoned researcher of vulnerability, says that if your haters have never stepped in your shoes, they don’t deserve to pass any judgment on your actions.

Think for a second. If they have never taken the risk themselves, who are they to tell you that you have failed?

Brown says that “If you’re not in the arena and not getting your arse kicked, I’m not interested in your opinion.”

How to handle insults and hate: Learn why haters don’t matter.

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4. Surround yourself with positive people

Now you need some cushions to absorb the shocks of criticism. Surrounding yourself with positive people will help you maintain balance even when you’re getting a lot of hate.

Spend time with your loved ones and enjoy life to the fullest.

Your haters want you to become miserable. But it’s your choice to become happy or miserable.

How to handle insults and hate: Take strength from the love of family and friends.

5. Respond with silence

When you’re faced with criticism in a social setting such as your workplace, it is best to ignore and move on.

Responding with silence shows your haters that you are not affected by their remarks. It shows that you’re willing to take the high road.

When you respond with silence, the criticism dissolves by itself.

How to handle insults and hate: Never react to criticism, let it dissolve by itself.

6. Focus on yourself

When you have a lot going on in your life, haters won’t matter to you. Focus on YOUR goals and YOUR friends. Nothing else matters.

Make plans with your friends on the weekend. Work long hours on your favorite project. Schedule more downtime and go out with family. Dig deeper into your hobbies.

How to handle insults and hate: Be so busy being awesome that you have no time for hate.

7. Prove them wrong

Use criticism as motivation to work even harder. Because when you finally achieve what you want, your haters will have to eat their words and swallow their pride. None of their opinions will really matter.

And some of them may even become your fans!

So, be yourself without apologizing to anyone.

How to handle insults and hate: Realize how good it will feel to prove your haters wrong.

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